So, tonight, I was a fool and I drank two large iced coffees before heading to gongyo. Let me tell you, after being juiced up on an extra huge dose of caffeine my chanting at this evening's prayer service sounded like the Chipmunks Christmas Album played at warp speed. I was rocking back and forth as if I had been struck with Sudden Onset Autism, and I was afraid that I might spontaneously combust.
As you can probably imagine, since I am writing this at 1:15am, that going to bed at my regular bedtime was not an option.
So, I decided to indulge a little addiction I have called Scrabble on Facebook. David and I have been locked in a non-stop loop of games for almost a year. This evening, I decided to post a Scrabble ad for a random game. I always include in the posting that gay guys are a plus. Otherwise you get middle aged soccer moms posing as 20 something former sorority girls that want you to type dirty to them while you play suggestive words. I ain't having it.
So, along comes Tung, a recent high school graduate from somewhere in the hinterlands of Canada (he could be from Toronto for all I remember but anywhere north of Minnesota is one big giant nowhere).
As we are playing, our little Tung initiates a chat that goes like this:
Tung: "So you are gay."
Me: "Sho nuff."
Tung: "That's so COOL."
Me: "Yep. I am gay. I am pretty happy I turned out this way."
Tung: "I wish I knew gay people"
Me: "You probably do."
Tung: "Not to be like rude or what not. But I always wanted to know how gays act in a relationship compared to a man and a woman."
Me: "Not rude at all. It doesn't really work like that. I am a man. My partner is a man. Neither of us is the 'woman.'
Tung: "Really. Ha ha. I am expanding my vocabulary playing Scrabble and I am learning something about gays."
I could not make this stuff up if I tried. God bless pop culture. Ten or even five years ago, I highly doubt the reaction of a 18 or 19 year old person who had never met a gay person (that they knew about) in real life would think that being gay is cool and wish that they knew gay people. Perhaps little Tung is gay and wants to come out. Or perhaps he is just a product of his time. Either way...it was strangely refreshing and definitely made me giggle out loud.